Why divorce was the hardest & also the best thing to ever happen to my family I never wanted a divorce. I always pictured the classic growing hold together, happy thriving family. As my own marriage crumbled I had to face the reality of what was not what I wanted or what I had imagined. I resisted it for so long even after we separated. It was the final piece of grief I had to face and truly accept, and I think the hardest. The new dream of what could be and what is possible couldn’t emerge unti